The 7 Day Relationship Reset Starter Kit
For Heart-Centered HorseWomen Ready to Rebuild Trust, Restore Safety. Let's begin again - TOGETHER.
You and Your Horse CAN feel safe, confident and empowered TOGETHER!
I created a 7 Day Program so you can create a 'CLEAN SLATE' and make a world of difference for your horse AND yourself!
How is this different
from everything else I've seen or tried?!
I felt like I had to choose between my safety and my horse:
Can you relate? I flew through the air, hit the ground with my face first. I opened my eyes: the fence post right in front of me... I could have been paralyzed, I could have died! The neighbor weight in: "It's time to let go of that horse. He is just too much for you!" - and all I could think was: That would break my heart!
I've been there, just like you... By now, you've probably tried everything: Groundwork programs, Bio-Mechanic Clinics, Natural Horsemanship. "Make the right thing easy and the wrong thing difficult"... It didn't feel good BUT you were told you HAD to do it...
Finally, you tried treat-based methods... and all that happened was: Your horse got even pushier, demanding treats all the time. How frustrating!
Searching for answers on YouTube at 2am. But nothing touches the real problem - the invisible wall of tension that stands between you and the horse you love.
The Truth No One Talks About
Your 'problem' isn't a difficult horse. It's what the horse industry sells you as 'the solution': It's the combination of pressure, control, dominance as well as treat based training methods AND Residual Tension - the emotional static that keeps you and your horse in self preservation and self protection.
THE #1 ROOT CAUSE FOR ALL HORSE PROBLEMS!
Traditional training asks: How do we fix the behavior?
We ask: How do we heal the relationship?
The 7 Day Relationship Reset Starter Kit isn't about dominance or bribery. It's about returning to the INTER-Connection that brought you to horses in the first place... HEALING you and your horse!
What Can Change in Just 7 Days?!
Learn the Relationship Reset Formula and facilitate positive change:
FOR YOU:
- Release what's holding you back
- Arrive at the barn with anticipation, not dread
- Lead from authentic confidence, not forced authority
- Trust your instincts again
FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP
- Moments of Genuine Connections that surprise you both
- A foundation built on mutual respect and understanding
- The joy you thought you'd lost forever
FOR YOUR HORSE:
- A human who feels safe to be around
- Clear, calm communication without pressure or treats
- Permission to relax instead of constantly watching for threats
- A partnership based on choice, not compliance
Why This Works When Everything Else Failed
Most methods treat symptoms. We address the SOURCE.
Instead of:
"Assert your dominance" → Create safety for both nervous systems
"Just push through the fear" → Honor the wisdom of your intuition
"More groundwork drills" → Gentle presence & release practices
"You need to be the alpha" → Become the leader your horse chooses to follow
This isn't theory.
It's a proven framework that's helped thousands of women rebuild trust with their horses—AND with themselves.
I teach female horse lovers and their horses
From Around the World how to...
Feel Safe, Secure and Confident TOGETHER! Are you Next?
Julie
United Kingdom
I have to say I have never known anyone as generous as you Petra! What you give to people and horses - and the content of what is in the course - goes way more than any other course I've done or known. You are phenomenal! I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for giving me the tools to go forward with my beloved horses. You are a light in the darkness for horses and people and may it continue to shine on so brightly.
Shari
United States
You are in my head every time I am with my horses!
My relationship with them all is SOOOO much better since I have been learning from you!
You are an amazing woman and you are changing the world for so many of us!
My horses and I love you so much...
Thank you!
Krista-Lee
Australia
I'm really loving your master class. I'm listening in when I can and watch the same video a few times to soak in all your knowledge. I feel more at ease the more I see how relaxed our mare is with all our ground work you have taught us. I turn [my daughter] Sarah is growing so much confidence to do a lot of the tasks on her own (with me watching on of course). You have made this journey so much less scary and 100% safer! Thank you so much!
Carmen
Germany
Nowadays, my mare Nevada is so relaxed: Even her body worker says that she is a different horse! For years, Nevada's tail was tense and tight prior to studying with you. No practitioner could help me with that. I was told it cannot be changed. She can now relax her tail! She also used to pull on me all the time and I was so frustrated. I am so happy that now Nevada easily walks with me and doesn't lunge for grass anymore! A few weeks ago, I thought I would never ride again and now I can see that it will be possible!
PETRA CHRISTENSEN:
Your Connection & Confidence Mentor
Why Should you Believe (in) me?
My accident and the years of frustrations thereafter lead me to become a Parelli Natural Horsemanship Instructor... but in 2013 I resigned to create my own program - and here is WHY:
I realized: Putting the relationship first can't be just a fancy slogan... Traditional horse training and even natural horsemanship are built on the patriarchal communication of the dominant stallion. It is an illusion that pressure and control based training techniques keep us - the human - safe, secure and confident around horses.
Quite the contrary: Dominant training (i.e. 'Escalating Phases, Effective Phase 4) KEEPS our horses in self-preservation and self-protection mode, CREATING scary experiences for horse AND human. Accidents are even explained as 'normal'! ("Your not a horsewoman if you haven't fallen off yet!")
Treat based training connects your horse to the treat - and NOT you...
But it Does NOT Have to be This Way: ALL horses follow the LEADmare, NO horse follows the dominant stallion... I will show you how to BEcome the Guardian and LEAD in your Herd of 2!
AND REMEMBER: Softness is not a weakness or lack of knowledge: When your horse feels seen, heard and understood, BOTH - you AND your horse - CAN feel safe, secure and confident TOGETHER! Everything becomes possible when you learn how to adjust your actions to create real, true and genuine INTER-CONNECTION, with you as the calm, consistent and confident GUARDIAN & LEAD!
As certified Insight Inventory® Coach, I am here to help and support YOU AND YOUR HORSE!
Let's be honest...
If you do nothing, nothing will change.
The fear will still rise in your throat. Your horse will still worry.
The doubt will still whisper when you reach for the lead rope.
And worst of all...
Your horse will keep wondering who to follow.
Because you’re still wondering if you can lead...
But what if, in just one week, you could walk into the barn and feel calm again?
Today CAN be the day you start on your journey to clarity, consistency, certainty and confidence - for horse AND human.
Your Next Step is SIMPLE!
Click below to get the 7 Day Relationship Reset Started Kit - and begin the most important work you and your horse will ever do.
CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED TODAY!What You Get Inside this
Relationship Reset Starter Kit
1. The Step by Step Workbook:
When you say YES to the 7 Day Relationship Reset Starter Kit, you get these Three Special Gifts for FREE:
FREE GIFT #1:
Can you relate?
“I freeze when I’m unsure and don’t know how to show up as a confident leader.”
“I don’t know how to release my own tension.”
“I don’t know how to stay calm when my horse gets tense.”
Sound familiar?
For years, I felt that way too — anxious around my horses, uncertain how to show up as the grounded leader they needed.
I tried the usual advice:
“Just do it.” “You have to ride through it.” “Don’t be a weenie — just get back on!”
(Yes, that’s literally what my neighbor said.)
The Result?
I almost gave up! I was seriously considering selling my horses an getting a desk job!
I would have been MISERABLE...
But then I discovered something that changed EVERYTHING:
Learning how to scan my body for hidden tension — mental, emotional, and physical — and how to reset my nervous system with purpose.
That’s why I created this 15-minute Body & Awareness Relaxation Audio — as a bonus just for you.
It’s designed to help you develop the kind of calm, relaxed presence your horse instinctively trusts.
You’ll tune into your body, release tension, and restore the peaceful confidence your horse is needs to follow you!
PETRA’S TIP: The effects are cumulative — the more often you listen, the more natural your calm confidence becomes.
TRACY & LUCA, New Zealand: "The Body Relaxation and Awareness Audio helped me tons to let go of my anxiety!"
FREE GIFT #2:
Can you relate?
“I struggle to lead without feeling bossy or afraid.”
“I've been told I'm too soft so I'm scared to try again and get hurt.”
“I'm not sure I have what it takes to be a confident leader.”
“People tell me my horse is too much for me.”
Sounds familiar?
For years, I was told that I’m too soft... that I need to show my horse who’s boss… that I can’t let her get away with THAT...
But here’s the truth: It’s not you. It’s not your horse.
It’s the system.
By nature, horses push and pull against pressure. That’s why they buck. That’s why they panic and pull back when tied — especially if no one taught them that a single step can release the very pressure they’re afraid of.
All those escalating phases?
That “effective Phase 4”?
That mindset of “make the right thing easy and the wrong thing difficult”?
It’s unnecessary.
Because the horse can feel a fly on her hair — one that weighs just 12 milligrams.
So when we apply a feel of 100 grams/3 oz to the halter, that’s over 8864 times more than a fly weighs.
It’s not about more — it’s about clarity, connection and understanding.
The good news is...
By nature, horses want to follow. But not somebody who pushes, pulls and yanks...
That's why in this special 30 Minute Video Lesson, I’ll show you how the softness you’ve been faulted for — the thing you were told was a lack of leadership and knowledge — is actually your greatest superpower.
You’ll learn how to use your soft feel to:
✔️ Help your horse stop pushing, pulling, or testing your space
✔️ Invite her to respond with understanding — not opposition
✔️ Guide her with a light feel of 100 g/3 oz on the halter or rein
✔️ Build a partnership where she wants to follow your suggestions because being with you FEELS GOOD!
PETRA’S TIP:
Most programs talk about “responsiveness” — built from escalating pressure.
This webinar will empower you to lead with lightness through softness, so your horse feels seen, heard, and safe in your presence and happily and willingly follows you and your suggestions!
FREE GIFT #3:
Can you relate?
“I barely have time to get to the barn.”
“I feel like I’m falling behind with my horse.”
“I want to make progress, but life keeps getting in the way.”
Sound familiar?
For years, I felt like I was juggling too much — and my time with my horses was the first thing to slip through the cracks.
I’d show up frazzled, try to make the most of it, and leave feeling worse because I didn’t “do enough.”
I thought maybe I just wasn’t cut out for real progress if I couldn’t commit hours a day.
The Result?
Guilt. Disconnection. And that sinking feeling that I was letting my horse — and myself — down.
But then I realized something powerful:
It’s not about doing more. It’s about doing what matters — with intention — in the time you do have.
That’s why I created the “The 10-Minute Connection Reset Package” — a special collection of simple, effective tools to help you reconnect, track progress, and build trust in just 10 mindful minutes a day.
Inside you’ll find:
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A calming 10-Minute Connection Habit Checklist
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A Simplified Success Map (no extra tools required!)
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Powerful Reflection Prompts to help you spot emotional wins to make learning fun
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My personal guide: “10 Steps to Free Up Your Schedule and Use Your Time Wisely”
PETRA’S TIP:
The smaller the step, the more likely your horse can say yes — and those yeses build your bond faster than you think.
KAREN & SKY, Oregon:
“This gave me permission to start where I am. I finally feel like I’m doing enough — and my horse is more connected than ever.”